One can play at this game And I promise you, it's not me I can make a mistake If it's loving you, then let me free You know better, and so do I If I'm not the girl for you, baby, make up your mind 'Cause if you're not my man Then you're not one at all Least with me, there's not even a chance Where do you stand? Oh, if you're not my man? If she's so cool, if she's so sweet What the hell are you doing with me? Maybe my friends know what I need Telling me to ditch you, baby You know better than to watch me cry 'Cause I don't wanna wonder who else keeps you up at night So if you're not my man Then you're not one at all Least with me, there's not even a chance Where do you stand? Oh, if you're not my man? If you're not obsessed with me, and I mean only me Don't call me baby I'm not your enemy, I just don't want this if you're not ready So if you're not my man Then you're not one at all At least with me, there's not even a chance Where do you stand? Oh, if you're not my man?