The song follows this pattern until the last bit:

  Am                              Em
---------------------------------0---------------0---------------|
-0---0---0---0---0---0---0---0-------2---2---2-------2---2---2---|
-----------------------------------------------------------------|
---2---2---2---2---2---2---2---2---0---0---0---0---0---0---0---0-|
-----1---1---1-------1---1---1-------0---0---0-------0---0---0---|
-----------------------------------------------------------------|

 F                               Dm
-1---------------1-----------------------------------------------|
-----3---3---3-------3---3---3-----------------------------------|
---------------------------------0---0---0---0---0---0---0---0---|
---2---2---2---2---2---2---2---2---3---3---3---3---3---3---3---3-|
-----1---1---1-------1---1---1-------2---2---2-------2---2---2---|
-----------------------------------------------------------------|


we exchanged words
through smoke-filled mouths
and then we found our bodies
speaking loud
and our hearts pressed
against the flesh
trading stories
of love's pain
doubt
and rivaling insecurities

(strings: F  Am)

Dm                   Em
when did we learn to speak without words
and in tongues?
maybe we should just stop here.